Wednesday, December 15, 2010

How am I doing it? (Day 146) -- Let's say I'm going through my PACES

Well I posted my most recent pic (in the new outfit) on my FB yesterday and I have received a ton of positive feedback but also variations on the question - "How did you do it?"

Is it naive or odd that it is surprising to me that people are asking me this when I am still 1 lb away from a 50 lbs loss since July 23rd?

So what have been the things that have worked for me so far?

In thinking about this, I even came up with an acronym.  So here we go:


  1. Point-of-View - my mindset is very important and although some days I get down, I try to get myself back in the right headspace.   I am not beating myself up if I have a wonky day, I just try to re-focus as soon as I catch myself.  And although I weigh myself daily, I only update my weight when I have my next loss because it keeps me more motivated when I look at a chart and just see things going down.  I have not gone more than 7 days without a loss since I began to focus on changing me mindset, my health and my life.
  2. Accountability - This encompasses a number of things like the fact that my food log can be logged into by ANYONE, really makes me more aware of what I am eating and the rough calorie count helps keep me mindful.  Another part of accountability is using my digital food scale and measuring spoons and measuring cups.  And making note of the portion sizes on boxes and containers and using them.  In the past, I would eat an ENTIRE BOX of white cheddar mac n' cheese (for example).
  3. Choices -  I make a point to make healthier choices than I did in the past although I also choose to not deny myself anything because, in the past, saying "No, you can never have that again" just served to make me obsess and then binge eat.  But allowing myself a small portion of whatever I am craving does work for me when denial did not.  We choose to buy some of our groceries at the local Farmer's Market - especially hormone free meat and pesticide free fruits and vegetables (when in season).
  4. Exercise - I am moving more (though it is more of a challenge during a Canadian winter in South Western Ontario).  I bought some hand weights, a floor mat, an 8 lb medicine ball, a larger yoga-type ball and I have an elliptical.  In the nicer weather, I was walking a lot more outside and swimming at my niece's house.  Now I've been working out with two of my friends after trying a boot camp that was not a good fit for me.  And I am still seeing if I can fit a belly dance class around Son's scheduled activities in the new year.
  5. Support - I could not have accomplished this without first, the support (although it was begrudging at first) of Hubs and then, secondly, as I told more people, the support of my friends and family that I let in on what I was doing.  And that's not just my real world, in person friends, it includes my blogging friends, my FB friends, my Babycenter friends.  You need to have supportive people, even if it's only one or two at first - especially in the beginning where you are most likely to falter. And having the support of a medical professional is always a great idea during a weight lose plan/healthy lifestyle change!
So there you go, there's how I am summing up what I've done so far and what I will continue to do.

Thanks for listening!

edited to add:


  1. I think it's great that you posted what's worked for you. I think that in all, people know what works for one person may not work for another, but you give some pretty standard advice that everyone can live by :)

  2. And the funny thing is, before I started all this - I would have thought all this advice was "too basic" to actually work for me, but it has!

  3. Thanks so much for posting this! I am so thankful that there is someone like you out there who is willing to be real and up front with me and share your experiance you have come so far and I can only hope that my success with all this is as great as yours! Thank you SOOO much you are trully my inspiration! *hugs*

  4. Thank you so much for posting some encouragement on my blog. That means a lot to me. :) I look forward to following you too! You are such an inspiration to me. Congrats on your success!

  5. You've been losing weight consistently, so whatever you're doing is working pretty well. :-)

  6. Thank you, ladies!!!!

    @Ellen - thanks, hon!

    @Gina - you'll make me blush!

    @Stephanie - no need to thank me for posting encouragement, isn't that an essential part of blogging?

    @Jen - true :) Also, your pic is so damn cute, it makes me say, "awww" everytime I see it!