tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2363483289900650311.post5811263450506833915..comments2023-06-30T06:27:11.862-04:00Comments on Fat, Angry blog -- it's f*cking FAB!: One of those daysJayne Doehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07171437325305170395noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2363483289900650311.post-15399443350080792552011-06-15T10:36:21.450-04:002011-06-15T10:36:21.450-04:00I'm with you on the tragic outcome. I hope for...I'm with you on the tragic outcome. I hope for the sake of little m they stay the hell away from each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2363483289900650311.post-71111895075202609422011-06-15T07:49:08.096-04:002011-06-15T07:49:08.096-04:00There is no excuse for what he did OR what she did...There is no excuse for what he did OR what she did.<br /><br />The first time she called and told me he'd given her a black eye - despite the fact that she and I we not close - I told her to leave and when he called -- I took her side and I gave him hell.<br /><br />But I am going to say this -- they were BOTH victims and they were BOTH abusers.<br /><br />I blame both of them for the things that happened and they things they did and the things they caused.<br /><br />Though she already had a history of drugs and hitting her boyfriends (causing a bloody or a broken nose with one) years before they got together.<br /><br />You know that the two of them brought out (and probably still bring out) the absolute worse in one another.<br /><br />Whenever I hear about an assault or a murder - my first thought is always wondering if it's going to be them.<br /><br />As horrible as it is, I still think their relationship will eventually end up in a murder-suicide scenario and I have no idea which one will end up in which role.<br /><br />I certainly hope that does NOT occur but it's what I feel in my gut.FatAngryBloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11111350848902455866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2363483289900650311.post-72345815315313633882011-06-15T07:25:14.734-04:002011-06-15T07:25:14.734-04:00As much trouble as she was... after what I went th...As much trouble as she was... after what I went through I am surprised to see you blame one of the victims in this situation.<br /><br />I'm not saying he isn't equally a victim of her temper, but there is absolutely no justification for the stuff he did to her. <br /><br />I don't care what she did... his job was to walk away, not to throw her against walls and beat the snot out of her in front of a toddler. period.<br /><br />any violence = no excuse, no reasonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2363483289900650311.post-57970448574637648722011-06-14T22:17:35.967-04:002011-06-14T22:17:35.967-04:00Dysfunction and Relationship should never get toge...Dysfunction and Relationship should never get together.Bluezyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09571236569981685638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2363483289900650311.post-38093406281190912812011-06-14T15:39:31.702-04:002011-06-14T15:39:31.702-04:00I have had these moments of reflection in my life ...I have had these moments of reflection in my life before and you are right, sometimes...you HAVE to push away the toxic. It's truly only when you are far removed that you can see EXACTLY how toxic it is! Look at how much better off you are...Christiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07847523513197213212noreply@blogger.com